Saturday, May 14, 2011

Choice Words for Anti-Choice-ers

I understand that it takes every kind of people to make the world go round (thank you, Robert Palmer), and I also understand that disagreements on emotionally-charged issues are bound to happen between said people. I can also always see both sides of arguments, and can usually control my feelings of rage.

However, when I read this article, and saw that 3 Conservative MPs from my area and one former Liberal MP (all men, of course) were present at this particular rally, I was fuming mad.


First of all, I must attempt at correcting something... "Pro-life" is an inaccurate moniker for those who think abortion should be illegal. As a rational human being, I can guarantee you that no woman WANTS to have an abortion (if they do, there is some strange, separate problem going on in her brain that has zero to do with legal abortions). No female in this world wakes up in the morning and thinks "Today feels like an excellent day to get an abortion!". Pretending that any woman or man who believes in the right to choose is a murderer is ridiculous and incorrect. So really, the two sides are pro-choice and anti-choice. That's what it boils down to.

Okay, so... I am not a sexist person, but in this particular debate, I am utterly at a loss for an explanation as to why men are involved at all. I understand that they help sow the seeds that reside in the wombs of women that are key in this particular debate, but if those seeds were correctly planted every time - respectfully, lovingly and purposefully - ABORTIONS WOULD NEVER EVEN HAVE TO BE CONSIDERED.

This wouldn't be a question or a debate if men had even the slightest chance of mistakenly becoming impregnated. Seriously, it wouldn't. Luckily for those of you who are not penile-challenged, you do not have to worry about whether you want to carry the result of a rape/assault/molestation in you for 9 months, completely altering your already altered life. Once adulthood is reached, becoming the victim of sexual assault/rape/molestation doesn't even have to cross the mind of males (children are a whole other separate subset of victims).

I also understand that women get abortions simply due to an ill-timed/unwanted pregnancy. This screams of irresponsibility in my opinion, but it's her body, and it's her life - I'm not going to an anti-choice rally to make abortions illegal because she made choices I might not necessarily make.

This is also a simple matter of healthcare. If abortions are illegal, they become unregulated, unchecked procedures outside of the realm of safety. Women die as a result.

It is never an easy choice for any woman, but it should always be a choice. You can never anticipate the countless scenarios in which an abortion of a pregnancy may be an option or a necessity.

I plan on spending part of my afternoon writing to each MP that was present at the rally. They have no right pointing fingers and wagging tongues at an issue that they cannot even begin to comprehend.

No quote on this one. I just want you all to think about the wombs in your life, be they your own or belonging to those you love. Back alley hack jobs with coat hangers have no business near the wombs of desperate women.

3 comments:

  1. Touchy subject for sure. But when it comes down it it, yeah, in a rape situation, if a woman wasn't given the choice to be impregnated, how awful is it that she doesn't have a choice what to do with her own body afterward?
    It is about the choice, not the action of abortion. People abuse systems all of the time, you can't outlaw everything that isn't perfect and that makes people uncomfortable.

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  2. You hit the nail on the head on this one - which is why it's one of the few issues I don't have a concrete opinion on, except that perhaps I have no place in the debate due to my, ahem, 'appendage'.

    And as for all these religious nutcases... why are they even involved? If it's so god-damned sinful, those who choose abortion will 'get their just desserts', and the potential people they murder will shoot straight to heaven. Do they really want to legislate potential murderers into heaven? (They're view, not mine!). Then again, what's the point of arguing with someone who believes the world is 10,000 years old and that Jesus was a tall pale white man?

    Why not post the names and emails of the MPs so that others might contact them as well?

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  3. I completely value any males views on this, what I take issue with is them being part of a march to change laws that involve my uterus.
    Maybe I should start a rally that demands all males to stop jerking off, wasting all of their precious "possible" lives?
    Okay, joking aside...

    You can reach Royal Galipeau, Scott Reid, Stephen Woodworth and David Sweet (the Conservative MPs who participated and some who spoke, at the anti-choice rally last weekend) at their parliamentary offices by writing their name and addressing your letter to:

    Parliament Hill Office
    House of Commons
    Ottawa, ON
    K1A 0A6

    I'm thinking it might be best to mail letters to their Hill offices... simply because we are not constituents of most of them. But if you feel strongly about their "home" addresses, they are as follows...

    Royal Galipeau - MP from Orleans
    Orleans Address: 255 Centrum Blvd.
    Orléans, Ontario
    K1E 3W3

    Scott Reid - MP for Lanark-Frontenac-Lennox and Addington
    Perth Office: 105 Dufferin Square, Unit 1
    Perth, ON
    K7H 3A5

    David Sweet - MP for Ancaster-Dundas-Flamborough-Westdale
    Constituency Office: 59 Kirby Avenue, Unit 3
    Greensville Ontario L9H 6P3

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